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This was on [livejournal.com profile] tbrents' journal a while back, and I think it illustrates polyamory and its challenges very well.



Once upon a time, a long time ago there lived two very happy people called Tim
and Maggi with their two children, John and Lucy.

To understand how
happy they were you have to understand how things were in those days. You see,
in those happy days everyone was given, at birth, a small soft Fuzzy Bag.
Anytime a person reached into this bag he was able to pull out a Warm Fuzzy.


Warm Fuzzies were very much in demand because whenever somebody was
given a Warm Fuzzy it made him feel warm and fuzzy all over. People who didn't
get Warm Fuzzies regularly were in danger of developing a sickness in their
backs which caused them to shrivel up and die.

In those days it was very
easy to get Warm Fuzzies. Anytime that somebody felt like it, he might walk up
to you and say, "I'd like to have a Warm Fuzzy." You would then reach into your
bag and pull out a Fuzzy the size of a little girl's hand.

As soon as
the Fuzzy saw the light of day it would smile and blossom into a large shaggy
Warm Fuzzy. You then would lay it on the person's shoulder or head or lap and it
would snuggle up and melt right against their skin and make them feel good all
over.

People were always asking each other for Warm Fuzzies, and since
they were always given freely, getting enough of them was never a problem.


There were always plenty to go around, and as a consequence everyone was
happy and felt warm and fuzzy most of the time.

One day a bad witch
became angry because everyone was so happy and no one was buying potions and
salves.

The witch was very clever and devised a very wicked plan.


One beautiful morning the witch crept up to Tim while Maggi was playing
with their daughter and whispered in his ear, "See here, Tim, look at all the
Fuzzies that Maggi is giving to Lucy. You know, if she keeps it up, eventually
she is going to run out and then there won't be any left for you."

Tim
was astonished. He turned to the witch and said, "Do you mean to tell me that
there isn't a Warm Fuzzy in our bag every time we reach into it?" And the witch
said, "No, absolutely not, and once you run out, that's it. You don't have any
more." With this, the witch flew away, laughing and cackling.

Tim took
this to heart and began to notice every time Maggi gave up a Warm Fuzzy to
somebody else. Eventually he got very worried and upset because he liked Maggi's
Warm Fuzzies very much and did not want to give them up. He certainly did not
think it was right for Maggi to be spending all her Warm Fuzzies on the children
and on other people.

He began to complain every time he saw Maggi giving
a Warm Fuzzy to somebody else, and because Maggi liked him very much, she
stopped giving Warm Fuzzies to other people as often and reserved them for him.


The children watched this and soon began to get the idea that it was
wrong to give up Warm Fuzzies any time you were asked or felt like it.


They too became very careful. They would watch their parents closely,
and whenever they felt that one of their parents was giving too many Fuzzies to
others, they also began to object. They began to feel worried whenever they gave
away too many Warm Fuzzies.

Even though they found a Warm Fuzzy every
time they reached into their bag, they reached in less and less and became more
and more stingy. Soon people began to notice the lack of Warm Fuzzies, and they
began to feel less warm and less fuzzy. They began to shrivel up, and,
occasionally, people would die from lack of Warm Fuzzies.

More and more
people went to the witch to buy potions and salves even though they didn't seem
to work.

Well, the situation was getting very serious indeed. The bad
witch didn't really want the people to die (since dead people couldn't buy
salves and potions) so a new plan was devised.

Everyone was given a bag
that was very similar to the Fuzzy Bag except that this one was cold while the
Fuzzy Bag was warm. Inside of the witch's bag were Cold Pricklies. These Cold
Pricklies did not make people feel warm and fuzzy, but made them feel cold and
prickly instead.

But they did prevent people's back's from shriveling
up. So, from then on, every time somebody said, "I want a Warm Fuzzy," people
who were worried about depleting their supply would say, "I can't give you a
Warm Fuzzy, but would you like a Cold Prickly?"

Sometimes, two people
would walk up to each other, thinking they could get a Warm Fuzzy, but one or
the other of them would change his mind and they would wind up giving each other
Cold Pricklies. So while very few people were dying, a lot of people were still
unhappy and feeling very Cold and Prickly.

The situation got very
complicated. Warm Fuzzies, which used to be thought of as free as air, became
extremely valuable. This caused people to do all sorts of things in order to
obtain them.

Before the witch had appeared, people used to gather in
groups of three or four or five, never caring too much who was giving Warm
Fuzzies to whom. After the coming of the witch, people began to pair off to
reserve all their Warm Fuzzies for each other exclusively. People who forgot
themselves and gave a Fuzzy to someone else would feel guilty because they knew
that their partner would probably resent the loss. People who could not find a
generous partner had to buy their Fuzzies and they worked long hours to earn the
money.

Another thing which happened was that some people would take Cold
Pricklies.....which were limitless and freely available..... coat them white and
fluffy, and pass them on as Warm Fuzzies.

These counterfeit Warm Fuzzies
were really Plastic Fuzzies, and they caused additional difficulties. For
instance, two people would get together and freely exchange Plastic Fuzzies,
which presumably should have made them feel good, but they came away feeling bad
instead. Since they thought they had been exchanging Warm Fuzzies, people grew
very confused about this, never realizing that their cold, prickly feelings were
really the result of the fact that they had been given a lot of Plastic Fuzzies.


So the situation was very, very dismal, and it all started because of
the coming of the witch who made people believe that some day, when least
expected, they might reach into their Warm Fuzzy Bag and find no more.


Not long ago, a lovely, strong woman with big hips and a happy smile
came to this unhappy land. She seemed not to have heard about the witch and was
not worried about running out of Warm Fuzzies. She gave them out freely, even
when not asked. People called her the Hip Woman and some disapproved of her
because she was giving the children the idea that they should not worry about
running out of Warm Fuzzies.

The children liked her very much because
they felt good around her. They, too, began to give out Warm Fuzzies whenever
they felt like it.

The grownups became concerned and decided to pass a
law to protect the children from using up their supplies of Warm Fuzzies. The
law made it a criminal offense to give out Warm Fuzzies in a reckless manner,
without a license.

Many children, however, seemed not to know or care,
and in spite of the law they continued to give each other Warm Fuzzies whenever
they felt like it and always when asked.

Because there were many many
children...almost as many as grownups...it began to look as if maybe the
children would have their way.

As of now it is hard to say what will
happen. Will the forces of law and order stop the children? Are the grownups
going to join with the Hip Woman and the children in taking a chance that there
will always be as many Warm Fuzzies as needed?

Will Tim and Maggi,
recalling the days when they were so happy and when Warm Fuzzies were unlimited,
begin to give away Warm Fuzzies freely again?

The struggle spread all
over the land and is probably going on right where you live. If you want to, and
I hope you do, you can join by freely giving and asking for Warm Fuzzies and by
being as loving and healthy as you can.


EDIT 06/23/2009: In the comment thread below, I make two errors. One is by associating Jesus with the Essenes. Data since then has shown that it's very unlikely that he was associated with the Essenes (although there is evidence that there was some sort of connection, most likely that they had heard and incorporated some of his teachings). The other is in referring to fascism. I have a much better understanding of that term now, and it was used very incorrectly in this instance. My apologies for both mistakes. --K'La

Date: 2004-07-05 11:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tbrents.livejournal.com
I'd like to have a Warm Fuzzy.

Date: 2004-07-05 11:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lizzielove.livejournal.com
Warm fuzzies are great, we should learn from our pets. I walked into his life, and his dog was in love with me the first time I petted her. She's an endless source of warm fuzzy feelings curled up at my feet while I write this. Dogs and cats, natural warm fuzzy generators.

Yes I do have a preferred source for my warm fuzzies, but my friends have always been an excellent source of them as well, a most excellent source at that!

It would be a great world if everyone tried to be as great as our dogs think we are.

Ms. K'la la, I'm going to need a physical address for you and the handsome hubby so I can send y'all a wedding invite.

Date: 2004-07-05 01:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] naa-tualle.livejournal.com
Wow, that was beautiful! I think that things are getting clearer in my head lately about the warm fuzzies, and how I feel about them. Thanks.

Date: 2004-07-05 10:11 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Hay, Michelle here. I know this is your thing and I'm not knocking you, but that story there is the most ridiculous mess I've ever heard. I get the point of the story and can follow it's meaning-even coming down to the witch being God's law or my God even. I don't see any basis for it though. We can freely love people without having sex. I can get all the "warm fuzzies" I want in different manners. By the way, is life supposed to be good and "fuzzy" all the time. We must have a balance of some sort. I could make up a story like this that could argue the fact not to throw your fuzzies out to everyone in the world. In my wedding vows I said "forsaking all others". I'm sure that yours said something different and that's where it is a choice that is your own, of course, to live this way. I only see this story as a rebellion to do something that others in the mainstream are not doing. I would really not want to go that way for that reason. Here's my example that I was talking about in one of your other posts about teenage sex. I had sex then because it was a way to receive love that I didn't know how to get any other way. I did it (sex) because I thought the person wouldn't like me anymore if I didn't, and I needed to have someone to like me and be around me. I know now that I will not give of myself like that again except to the one whom I'm committed to and who is committed to me. I don't need this other sex or relationships like that because I know if it's not there from me to begin with that sex is not going to give it to me. You find this love inside yourself and you feel so much better. I was a slave to sex and relationships before, but not anymore. If I want something of the heart and physical- I know where to go and I know that it's there for me. I have no need to find it in someone else. This is MY marriage and it's meant for us and NO-ONE else. Yes, you give of yourself to others and you make friends, but to give away something that is meant for your marriage is beyond me. I know, I know -the story, but I say the story is hogwash and has no basis whatsoever. I say the story is conceiving and is THE BIG LIE.

Continued

Date: 2004-07-05 10:12 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I have a challenge for you and for your friends. Will you live a life like a Christian for two or three weeks. Go visit some good churches or listen to Christian radio. Just do this for a couple of weeks. Read as much of the New Testament as you can. Now don't get on these wacko preachers that are asking for money or teaching you that you can get to heaven by good works. I think Joel Osteen is a good preacher. Listen to some Southern Gospel music. Be faithful to one another in your marriages. This is just a challenge and I don't know if any of you will do this, but I just wondered what you would think about it. I wished I could spend more time around you K'la where you could understand where I'm coming from. I was wondering if you could step outside your box and try this on again? Sometimes you have to go to many churches before you find the right one, but of course you wouldn't know which one was the right one until the Lord moves upon you and you are saved. That does make it difficult for someone who is not saved. The Bible's true meaning is not revealed to those that are not covered by the Blood. You have to hear the Word first and then once the Holy Spirit comes upon you and you are saved are your eyes truly opened. Some people get confused with salvation and only have an emotional experience or some kind of thought that they want to be saved, but have not fully grasped what that means and get scared and then think they are saved just because they walked the isle or something. Anyway, I would like to know what you think. I do love everyone and wish for not one to be lost. What if the Bible really is true. There is more and more evidence that can be shown that things happened just as it was told. Do you know that these disciples gave there live for their beliefs after Jesus death. Oh, I wished my preacher could talk to you. He could tell you about all of this so well. He studies the Bible, but he is also a history buff and loves to search for the truth. I know the Bible is full of history itself. Well, let me know what you think. My e-mail is michelle@i4get.com. I would really love to be there in heaven with all of you up there. I know you don't believe in that, but I fully do and it hurts so much to know someone personally that won't be there unless they are changed. My daddy is one whom I'm afraid won't be there either. He says he was saved a long time ago, but does not bear the fruit, nor does he worship the Lord. He says he wants to, but never really gets around to it- you know. He doesn't even have to go to church, but he's just too into his worldly things. Well, God Bless.

Michelle

Biblical End Times

Date: 2004-07-05 11:24 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Signs of the End of the Age
Straight from Scripture

How close are we?



One theme running throughout the Bible is that God never judges or punishes without first warning His people. Warnings were given before The Flood (Genesis 6), before the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 18-19), before events of the Passover story (Exodus 12) and in the warning to Israel that he would be held captive by Babylon 70 years. (Jeremiah 13-18)

Instead God does His utmost to shake us loose from complacency and wrong behavior so that all may be saved. The Lord is . . . not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9)

This is one reason for the judgments in Revelation. His children have been thoroughly warned so none can complain they didn't have a clue. These times will see such catastrophic, horrific events none would survive except that the Lord cuts these judgments short.

Throughout scripture, in both the Old and New Testaments, God gives many, many indications when End Time Prophecies are about to be fulfilled.

In Matthew 24:32, Jesus tell us to watch for the rebudding of the fig tree - a symbol of Israel. He warns two verses later when this happens, the generation that sees it "will not pass" until all these things (the judgments and return of the Lord) take place.

The nation of Israel became re-established in 1948. This event has set the Lord's clock in motion and he warns that "when you see all these things, recognize that I will be near, right at the door" (Matthew 24:33). So while that we may know only "the times and the seasons", not a specific date, the Lord could arrive literally at any moment.




Israel's Signs:


Israelis will come back to their country.
When the Jews return to Israel, the desert will bloom.
The Hebrew language will be revived.
They will occupy Jerusalem.
Israel's statehood will be re-established.
Their military strength will become mighty.
World politics will focus on Israel and many (most) countries will turn against her.

Signs in Societal Breakdown:


People will have no regard for the law, becoming violent, immoral, greedy, selfish, hedonistic and rebellious. Total family break down will be common, all of which brings on great despair.

2 Timothy 3:1-4, 6

This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent (unrestrained sexual appetites), fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;

For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,


Mark 13:12

Now the brother shall betray the brother to death, and the father the son; and children shall rise up against their parents, and shall cause them to be put to death.

Biblical End Times - Continued

Date: 2004-07-05 11:26 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Matthew 24:12

And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.


Other indicators of these times include drug use.

Revelation 9:21

Neither repented they of their murders, nor of their sorceries, nor of their fornication, nor of their thefts.

NOTE: The Greek word for sorceries in Rev 9:21, "pharmakeia", means pharmaceuticals or drugs.


And increased homosexuality.


Luke 17:28-30


Likewise also as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold, they planted, they builded; But the same day that Lot went out of Sodom it rained fire and brimstone from heaven, and destroyed them all. Even thus shall it be in the day when the Son of man is revealed.


Romans 1:24, 26-27

Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.


These same problems were seen in Noah's time when God wiped the slate clean with The Flood; now the same transgressions are rampant again.


Matthew 24:37-39

But as the days of Noe were, so shall also the coming of the Son of man be. For as in the days that were before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noe entered into the ark, And knew not until the flood came, and took them all away; so shall also the coming of the Son of man be.

Global Political Signs:


War and talk of war.
Rise of a European superstate.
In the "latter days" after Israel had became a nation, there would be a great military power to their extreme north in the land of Magog (Russia).
Rise of an Asian nation capable of assembling 200 million troops
Rise of global government
With the destruction of Babylon, a global economy moves into position.

Signs in Nature:


Earthquakes, famines, disease
Disease will be rampant the world over
There will also be frightening events seen in the sky including UFOs, comets/meteors, wild weather and malevolent storms.
All of these events will so frightening, they will cause men to faint and suffer heart attacks.

Spiritual Signs:


Apostasy - doctrinal and moral departure will be seen in the church.
Even worse, some will turn from the Lord to Satanism.
There will be those who mock about the "End Times".
Christians and Jews will experience persecution.
There will be trends Toward Ecumenical religion leading to the one world religion.
Many will claim to be the Lord.
Yet through all this, the Gospel will spread worldwide.
And not until then will Bible prophecy become clear.
And there will be a great outpouring of the Holy Spirit.

Signs in Technology:


There will be an explosion in knowledge and travel.
Computer technology is needed to implement the Mark of the Beast.
Use of robotics, holograms, clones or other technology.
Satellite transmission
Use of nuclear weapons


I took this from this site: http://standeyo.com/index1.html. You can read all the scripture there. I didn't have enough room for all the scripture.

Love,

Michelle

Original Story/Author

Date: 2004-07-06 12:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/astriana_/
Thought this might be helpful (or protective, depending on who you talk to):

http://www.emotional-literacy.com/fuzzy.htm

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