Quiz Question #7
Jul. 28th, 2004 10:03 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
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bookofmirrors is a...A. top
B. bottom
C. switch
D. none, thank you very much
Answer: B
Everyone except
blckwngdorcl picked switch for this! What's up with that?!!? I actually gave fesser partial credit for it, since, in some of our online scenes, I've dommed women for him, so I could see how he might get that. But I'm a bottom, honest! What is it you people see that I don't?Note: I could be sub to either a man or a woman. And I could top a woman. But I don't think I could ever do it to a man. To me, there's a beauty in BDSM, a sense of cherishing the slave, and the gift of submission. In all the F/m femdom I've read about (and that is, granted, the extent of my knowledge of it), there's a sense of contempt for the slave. I could never be that way. If there was a sense of cherishing the male sub, I might be able to do that... but... face it... females in that state are just breathtakingly beautiful. I have a hard time feeling that way about men in that state. (No offense meant to those who can... hell, I'd love to hear other takes on it.)
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Date: 2004-07-29 07:21 am (UTC)I like playing with power but contempt, denigrating your partner...ewww. And submission from a man is more of a gift, I should think; they are taught they are supposed to always be in control.
Ummm....
Date: 2004-07-29 12:35 pm (UTC)Note: I could be sub to either a man or a woman. And I could top a woman.
Generally, when one could enjoy being either a top or a bottom, one would be referred to as "switch," regardless of any gender preference for those roles, and regardless of the play details that you might require for any given scene.
A bottom, in my experience, would refer to someone who didn't desire to or enjoy topping anyone, regardless of gender or play details.
Just my opinion, and justifying my answer.
Of course, you are welcome to call yourself whatever makes you happiest. :-)