Yet, Book's posts are so honest and open. It's why I can't stop reading them. What you see is what you get. She is just what she says she is. She had the balls to stand up in a judgmental world and say, "I love these men and we are doing this." Then she did it. How many people have that kind of honest disclosure?
She seemed to want to hear it all--the good and the bad. She got tons of reactions of all sorts and ended up with a bunch of information she could either use or discard. But maybe there was a glimmer there that might make a difference.
I don't think blckwng should feel villified. It was about her side. Her friends read her journal. They will probably be on her side. Of course, he has his side. Who's to bless and who's to blame?
We all are.
There aren't any bad people here. Just two people doing the best they can and loving the best they know how with what they have to offer.
I think they are both great, nice, caring, loving, faulty, wonderful, flawed people--each in their own way--just like the rest of us. They have been lucky enough to find someone who adores them.
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Date: 2006-02-24 04:41 am (UTC)She seemed to want to hear it all--the good and the bad. She got tons of reactions of all sorts and ended up with a bunch of information she could either use or discard. But maybe there was a glimmer there that might make a difference.
I don't think blckwng should feel villified. It was about her side. Her friends read her journal. They will probably be on her side. Of course, he has his side. Who's to bless and who's to blame?
We all are.
There aren't any bad people here. Just two people doing the best they can and loving the best they know how with what they have to offer.
I think they are both great, nice, caring, loving, faulty, wonderful, flawed people--each in their own way--just like the rest of us. They have been lucky enough to find someone who adores them.
Now, they just gotta make it work. :)