That's exactly the same thing with Alan and I. I Bitch about things and so does he, so in the eyes of our friends we're each this evil beast of a human with no redeaming qualitites. *WE* know the good points the other has, but it doesn't help those that only know of our partner through us and what we say about them. I've written a post similar to this one and likely will again sometime.. It's kind of sad to me that although we love someone so completely people vilify them because of what we say about them... Maybe it's something I need to change...
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Date: 2006-02-23 12:28 pm (UTC)